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Mutual Consent Divorce

What is a divorce based on mutual consent grounds?

Divorces can take a long time to complete from beginning to end. In some instances, the parties can obtain an absolute divorce based on mutual consent grounds if certain requirements are met. First, there MUST be a written and signed settlement agreement that resolves all the issues including marital property, child custody, child support, alimony, and use and possession of the marital home. Second, there must also be a completed child support guidelines worksheet if child support is involved. Both parties must be satisfied with the agreement and the court must also be satisfied with the agreement. If child custody is part of the agreement, the court must be satisfied that the custody schedule is in the best interests of the minor child(ren).

A lawyer can help you draft the agreement and file the necessary paperwork with the court to help you obtain your final absolute divorce. Filing for an absolute divorce based on mutual consent grounds helps the parties avoid costly litigation and is expeditious once the agreement is drafted and signed. If you have any questions, please contact us at (443) 741-2567 and we would be happy to meet with you to answer all of your questions.

Handling Your Child's Changing Schedule In A New School Year

With the start of the school year underway, the changes in your children’s schedule may spark renewed discussions with you and your ex regarding changing your custody schedule. Maybe your child is starting kindergarten, or perhaps your child’s after school activities are more time consuming and you have to figure out a new pick up schedule… many new changes may have parents needing to address an existing custody arrangement or perhaps even modify it.

Below are some helpful tips to consider as you handle these changes:

  1. Be respectful and be a good listener. The conversation and concerns will go much smoother if you approach concerns with a positive attitude.

  2. Put your child’s needs and priorities first. If there needs to be an adjustment due to schedule or a new change and it is in your child’s best interest to do so, you should give it some serious consideration.

  3. If you and your ex cannot come to an agreement, consider other options like mediation before resorting going to court. Litigation is the most expensive option to go through and there are other avenues to explore.

  4. Consistency is important as it pertains to a child’s schedule. If you do come to an agreement and make some adjustments, stick to them as best as you can as to avoid constant disruption in your child’s life.

Change can be stressful but it is also manageable. If you have any questions, please feel free to reach us at (443) 741-2567 and we would be happy to meet with you to discuss your options.

Can You Lose Custody If You Have A Mental Illness?

One of the most difficult circumstances that people can encounter in family law matters is mental illness and how it affects a person’s life and family. If kept hidden, it can have devastating effects on relationships and custody matters. Depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, and addiction are some of the conditions that are classified by the courts as mental illness.

When determining custody, the court takes into consideration many factors before issuing a custody order. In Maryland, the court will determine custody by deciding on what is in the best interest of the minor child. That being said, having a mental illness does not mean that you are unfit to have custody of your child. The court will consider factors like one’s psychological diagnosis, treatment plans, willingness to seek help, whether there are frequent hospitalizations, and whether there are violent outbursts in making their decision. The court will evaluate, among other things, whether there is a history of safety concerns to the child at anytime. Depending on the case, expert witnesses may need to provide documents and testimony to the court. Ultimately, the court wants to keep both parents in their children’s lives and will weigh how a parent’s mental illness affects the child’s best interests.

Mental health concerns and the impact on child custody matters are complex when you are going through a custody battle. If you have any questions or concerns about how mental health can impact your divorce or custody matter, please call us at (443) 741-2567 and we would be happy to meet with you to answer all of your questions.